Should you break up with your boyfriend because you’re not happy in the relationship? But you love him so much! Over 28 years on earth I ended my relationship with three men I was insanely in love with and I’m still alive! Plus, I came out a new stronger person after each break up so did not regret it. If you are wondering if you need to break up with someone you love, here are some of my reasons to end a relationship, because I don’t accept that you’re unhappy in a relationship but can’t leave. You can. But don’t let him come after me.